HELP responses weren't taking the client nickname as a parameter,
as is standard.

Channel rename (both of registered and unregistered channels) would leave
the old name unreclaimable.

Fixes #1260

This didn't work correctly for IPv6 or custom nets.
/UNDLINE IP can temporarily be used to reset the throttle.

Tor listeners should never see an STS cap.

Add an undocumented 'hide-sts' key for listeners that hides the STS cap.
This can be used if the listener is secured at layer 3 or 4 (VPNs,
E2E mixnets). It will be necessary to add the relevant IPs to `secure-nets`.

Allow `JOIN 0` with a confirmation code

Record INVITE in DM history for the benefit of offline always-on clients

* Defer account login snomask until after connection registration is complete
* Don't send account-notify for pre-registration clients

Include an 'r' flag in RPL_WHOREPLY for registered nicks

Enhancements to NS SUSPEND, including stored metadata and the ability
to list suspensions

Address SETNAME UX problems reported by @KoraggKnightWolf in #oragono:

1. No feedback by default on success or failure
2. Multi-word realnames are not correctly interpreted by some clients

fix #1248

Link to the new draft PR:
<https://github.com/ircv3/ircv3-specifications/pull/420>

Changes in the spec:

- Use standard replies instead of numerics:
  <https://github.com/ircv3/ircv3-specifications/pull/420/files#diff-70e90beef48dc9cf5d784d1e179ea822R44>
- Allow RENAME to a different case:
  <https://github.com/ircv3/ircv3-specifications/pull/420/files#diff-70e90beef48dc9cf5d784d1e179ea822R42>

This commit makes oragono send the PART-JOIN fallback even on case-only
changes. This is so that clients don't have to worry about oragono's
UTF8 casefolding. See the following comments for further info:
<https://github.com/ircv3/ircv3-specifications/pull/420#issuecomment-668770837>

Misc fixes:

- Remove unused variable,
- Add missing calls to utils.SafeErrorParam,
- Don't fill replies with the user-provided "oldName", for the same
  reason as sending the PART-JOIN fallback.