fix CHATHISTORY 005 token name

Unclear where we got draft/CHATHISTORY from, it looks like the merged drafts
have always used unprefixed CHATHISTORY as the token name.

* fix #2002

`CS AMODE #channel +f nickname` is invalid, but was being accepted
incorrectly.

* simplify logic

Use ratified extended-monitor cap name

https://github.com/ircv3/ircv3-specifications/pull/508

Update MANUAL.md

- Change instructions to place the script from `post` to `deploy` which will only update the certificate and key IF the renewal is successful.

fix #1996

According to the de facto standard, `AWAY :\r\n` is equivalent to `AWAY\r\n`.
Our behavior was inconsistent before, now it consistently matches the de facto
standard.

replace some utils.Semaphore with (*sync.Mutex).TryLock

See #1994

exempt a configurable number of MARKREAD commands from fakelag

fix #1991

WHO <nickname> should not respect +i

use new aligned atomic types everywhere

/UBAN LIST explicitly states 'indefinite' durations for Klines/Dlines

See 69448b13a1 / #1969; the compiler can now ensure that a uint64
intended for atomic access is always aligned to a 64-bit boundary.
Convert atomic operations on uint32s and pointers as well.

upgrade go to 1.19

fix #1980

Sanitize ::1 to 0::1 in WHOX output

upgrade dependencies for v2.11 release cycle

parallelize tests via the native go mechanism

Update Crowdin URL

fix #1969

On a 32-bit architecture, 64-bit atomic loads and stores must be aligned to a
64-bit boundary. Since the (mysql.MySQL) struct is directly included in the
Server struct, it is impossible to guarantee this via the standard technique
of putting the 64-bit value at the beginning of the struct definition
(since the point at which it is included in the parent struct may cross a
64-bit boundary).

This optimization is probably pointless anyway, adding an additional
indirection won't make a difference.

bump version and changelog for v2.10.0

only send MARKREAD to sessions with the read-marker cap

fix critical bugs in draft/read-marker

changelog updates for v2.10.0-rc1